The video basically showed some kids that told their story about being bullied or being the bully. Some were the usual but some went up to extreme measures. I felt very sorry for those kids and their story, and I felt that it should just stop. Some people have the courage to do this, but some people don't. Here is my story on when I stood up.
My family and I are friends with almost all the South Americans in KL. So once in a while we have little get togethers with some of them. Most of the time we usually meet up in someones house to have a dinner but occasionally on someones birthday or a special celebration we have a party. And about two or three moths age we had one, it was the "Tournament of Badminton" for the grown ups, but my friends and I mostly stayed in the pool. We were all happy and smiling, except when when the party neared it's end.
After playing endlessly in the water until our fingers looked like small prunes, we decided to go over to the courts to see how the tournament was going. When we got there we heard celebrating I knew that someone had won but never my own parents! It looked like so much fun I wanted to try. So one of my friends called Juliana and this boy named Luisiano and his sister Luisina played against us. 1-0, 2-0, 3-0, 4-1, 5-1, 6-1! We just kept scoring and scoring! Now I don't mean to be mean, but i've never liked this boy, I think he is mean, inconsiderate, a big show off and everything else that you can think of! Because of this I try to stay away from him as much as possible to not cause any trouble, but that plan didn't work today.
So as I said we were winning really badly so after a couple of points, we started over celebrating our one point, "7-1 7-1!! we're winning we're winning!" I knew he would really annoyed, and that's probably why i did it. But right after the game finished, we were celebrating so much and so loudly that he got so annoyed, he swung he racket and hit my friend on the arm! I got really mad. I saw him look at my mood, he started walking away but I moved faster. I went right up to him and said exactly what I felt. :How could you do that! I can't believe you are such a bad sportsman that just because I silly game you get so mad you didn't win you just go and hit someone!" I was breathing so hard and my face was bright red. He had hit her so hard that she had started crying! (and she's not the type that would cry over anything) For days I just kept wanting to punch him right in the face, but i knew I couldn't do that."At lest he got told off from his mother." I kept saying in my head. I guess that made me a little more calm. So I got over it.
But later I realized the whole thing was partially my own fault. I remember I just kept teasing him, and teasing him, and never stopped. And according to the video that is definitely considered bullying. Of coarse, hitting someone with a badminton racket is a million times worse, but if i hadn't said anything, Juliana would have never gotten hit in the first place. So I learned a lesson that day, next time think of what you'r going to do before you do it. Thats definitely something I would do differently.
My family and I are friends with almost all the South Americans in KL. So once in a while we have little get togethers with some of them. Most of the time we usually meet up in someones house to have a dinner but occasionally on someones birthday or a special celebration we have a party. And about two or three moths age we had one, it was the "Tournament of Badminton" for the grown ups, but my friends and I mostly stayed in the pool. We were all happy and smiling, except when when the party neared it's end.
After playing endlessly in the water until our fingers looked like small prunes, we decided to go over to the courts to see how the tournament was going. When we got there we heard celebrating I knew that someone had won but never my own parents! It looked like so much fun I wanted to try. So one of my friends called Juliana and this boy named Luisiano and his sister Luisina played against us. 1-0, 2-0, 3-0, 4-1, 5-1, 6-1! We just kept scoring and scoring! Now I don't mean to be mean, but i've never liked this boy, I think he is mean, inconsiderate, a big show off and everything else that you can think of! Because of this I try to stay away from him as much as possible to not cause any trouble, but that plan didn't work today.
So as I said we were winning really badly so after a couple of points, we started over celebrating our one point, "7-1 7-1!! we're winning we're winning!" I knew he would really annoyed, and that's probably why i did it. But right after the game finished, we were celebrating so much and so loudly that he got so annoyed, he swung he racket and hit my friend on the arm! I got really mad. I saw him look at my mood, he started walking away but I moved faster. I went right up to him and said exactly what I felt. :How could you do that! I can't believe you are such a bad sportsman that just because I silly game you get so mad you didn't win you just go and hit someone!" I was breathing so hard and my face was bright red. He had hit her so hard that she had started crying! (and she's not the type that would cry over anything) For days I just kept wanting to punch him right in the face, but i knew I couldn't do that."At lest he got told off from his mother." I kept saying in my head. I guess that made me a little more calm. So I got over it.
But later I realized the whole thing was partially my own fault. I remember I just kept teasing him, and teasing him, and never stopped. And according to the video that is definitely considered bullying. Of coarse, hitting someone with a badminton racket is a million times worse, but if i hadn't said anything, Juliana would have never gotten hit in the first place. So I learned a lesson that day, next time think of what you'r going to do before you do it. Thats definitely something I would do differently.